
Bo at 18 weeks, clearing a grass pile to reach a bumper, he was born with tons of "go!"
Puppy socialization and behavior – this is a big subject that is really above my pay grade! But I find that puppy socialization is often not discussed until it is too late to prevent or correct unwanted behavior without great effort. I see many folks who bring home a new puppy with no awareness of the importance of puppy socialization. My intent here is to prompt questions before it is too late.
Since I have no formal education in this area, I’m going to address it through what I know from personal experience. Furthermore, I want to make you aware that many unwanted behaviors are accidentally instilled in your dog through your interactions with him or her. My hope is that awareness of this will make you consider how every action you take impacts and shapes the behavior of your dog, i.e., to remember that, for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction.
Many people ask me how I can be apart from my two labs, Sam and Isaac, for 10 months of the year, while they are training for AKC retriever field trials. My answer is that although they love me and my wife, the comforts of home, and their favorite squeaky toys (the first thing they do upon coming home is seek out the toy basket!), Sam and Isaac love the work that is in their DNA more. It would be selfish of me, and unfair to them, to restrict them to the limits of my lifestyle. To be successful in the field trial game, Sam and Isaac have to be equipped with the tools to handle many challenging situations. And they also have to make good decisions on their own. So, from the moment they entered the world, training began.
One of the first things that Sam and Isaac were taught, and what any puppy needs to know, is what the world is, meaning “what is this new and strange place and how do I fit in?” This is commonly referred to as “socialization.” The first aspect of socialization is learning to cohabitate with litter mates. Puppies learn that if they play too rough, their brothers and sisters do not enjoy playing with them, and they won’t have anyone to play with. They also learn that sometimes their brother and sisters just don’t feel like playing. It is imperative that puppies not be removed from their litter before seven weeks of age. Just as children can become more dominant or timid based on their environment, so can dogs. Therefore, it is also important puppies be removed them from their litter no later than eight weeks of age. We don’t want any bullies or wallflowers to develop!
When choosing a puppy, I chose a puppy who has at least three litter mates and who was removed from the litter at 49 days. Ideally I bring the puppy home with me at this point. Although I always enjoy bringing home a new puppy, the first day away from mommy is challenging for both the puppy and for me. I recommend the crate be introduced to them at this point. The crate will be the puppy’s safe place. The first night you bring puppy home, neither you nor the puppy will get any sleep, so be ready for sleep deprivation and a night of howling and barking. As much as possible, take puppy out of the crate only when he or she is quiet, puppy will learn quickly that being quiet, rather than barking, is his or her ticket out of the crate.
Since the crate will be the puppy’s home, you want to teach good crate habits, so at first do not include blankets and pads that will absorb urine. You want them to be uncomfortable if they urinate in their crate. Also this is the beginning of potty training – puppy needs to be taken out to potty a minimum of every one and a half to two hours. Take puppy to a place outside you want him or her to potty, and use the same door to get to that place every time. This will teach puppy how to tell you they need to go potty – they will go to that same door. If you do not do this, they will learn to go potty in their crate and potty training will be much more difficult.
A good breeder will have introduced them to loud noises in the litter, but you need to continue to do this. Bang some old pots and pans together, for example, for an introduction to loud noises, but do so in a controlled fashion. In other words, start at a distance and move closer to the puppy only have they have accepted the loud noise without fear. If puppy shows fear to anything, introduce them to it more slowly or use another method to introduce it and never console fear. Consoling or comforting your puppy when he or she is fearful teaches puppy to be more fearful. Puppies are smart – if they get attention when they are afraid, they will be afraid more often! This is often how dogs become afraid of thunder. First, they are not introduced to loud noises as puppies, then they are comforted and consoled during their first thunderstorm, so in essence a phobia to thunder is created that will have to be unlearned, or that will be present for their entire life. My dog Isaac is afraid of lawnmowers, his first experience with a lawnmower occurred suddenly, at my neighbor’s home, rather than in a slow and controlled manner.
For proper socialization, your puppy needs to be introduced to many other things as well. Your puppy should meet people of all types, shapes and sizes – big, small, men, women, wearing hats, sunglasses, etc. Your puppy should learn to ride in your car or truck, in his or her crate. Or, I like to let mine ride in the seat beside me and look out the window while I take a slow trip around the neighborhood. If you do this, it is very important not to let puppy come into your space, so they learn as a puppy not to be in your lap while you are driving. Of course for most car travel, the crate is the safest place for puppy to ride. While you are teaching your puppy to walk on a lead, take them as many places as possible to expose them to different environments, people, sounds and smells. This will allow them to experience these things in a controlled manner, instead of experiencing them suddenly, and will help them grow up to be a well-adjusted and confident adult dog.
Introducing your puppy to water should also be a well-planned event, rather than a sudden whim, even if he or she is a “water dog.” It is best to let puppies experience water when they are curious and ready to jump in, under your supervision of course, but you can certainly entice them by dropping a toy at the waters’ edge where it is shallow enough for them to wade to the toy without going under. The water should be warm and comfortable, not frigid. A prime example of the wrong way to introduce puppy to water is to drop them into deep cold water and let them learn to swim. This is cruel and will just teach puppy not to like the water. Dogs that are afraid of the sound of a gun, known as being “gun shy,” usually become this way due to a similar sudden experience with a gunshot – someone shot a loud gun close to puppy before puppy understood what the sound was. These examples give you an idea of what might cause fears in your puppy. If you are ever uncertain about introducing puppy to something, air on side of caution. It may appear unnecessary, but it is better to be cautious than to create a fearful, anxious puppy who will grow into a fearful and anxious adult dog. We want to help puppy grow into a confident, happy, secure and trusting adult dog!
One final thing to consider – vaccinations. Exposing your puppy to world does come with the risk of exposure to viruses. It is critical that your puppy’s immunizations are current and age-appropriate, and until they have completed their final round of puppy vaccinations at about 16 weeks of age they are at a much greater risk of contracting a disease. So you might ask the question, should I wait to take them out into the world until they have completed their puppy vaccinations? Most experts agree on this answer – show your puppy the world without exposing them to other dogs until they have completed their second round of shots (typically between 12-14 weeks of age). And be very selective about what other dogs puppy is exposed to until they have completed their final round of puppy shots. Puppy is still at risk until those final vaccinations are completed, but waiting to socialize your puppy is also a risk, because the window for socialization narrows greatly after a puppy is 16 weeks of age.
I could write for hours on this subject! Hopefully I have provided some food for thought, and encouraged further exploration of this topic. Your puppy will grow up fast – don’t miss your opportunity to get your puppy started on the right track to a happy and healthy adult life!